Q:  Rarely can I get my husband to change some of his annoying behaviors.  He says he loves me but nothing changes.

A:  You are under the notion that because someone professes their love, that they will respond positively to your every request.  This is not true.  He can love you and still not change his behavior.

Couples who love each other try to please each other.  Husbands especially, seek approval from their women. If he is a good guy, he will try and make you happy.

Either you married a bad dude or I suspect that you are demanding change by nagging him.  Husbands do not like to be nagged.  Use your feminine wiles to sweetly ask him to change and I bet you he will change.